It’s with great pleasure (and amazement) that I say I have over 1500+ followers over 4 social media platforms, but I’d love to grow this even further, so that IT Girl can try to help one more girl out there into STEM and to grow a bigger network at the same time. So please share http://www.TashaITGirl.com on any platform you see fit, or if you have any ideas it would be great to collaborate with 🤓 Thank you x
Great evening at the WCIT Journeyman Dinner, it’s great that a charitable and well established livery company and the men and women who make it so great, care so much about mentoring the younger members! Very appreciated and I look forward to giving back how I can too!
If you’re interested in learning more about the WCIT, then feel free to get in contact or check out their website 🤓
How are you feeling ready for this week ahead?
My morning routine usually consists of a cup of tea and a scroll through social media, like a true millennial, before cracking down on the To Do lists I set myself containing both personal and professional tasks. What’s your routine and do you feel it’s working?
Be the best version of yourself this week 💪🏻
There’s a lot in the media about the film Oceans 8 at the moment (which I personally can’t wait to see!) but one of the worst things is about having a majority female cast is the rumours that the women all hate each other etc (🙄), which in pop culture happens a lot from Sex and the City to more recent TV and films. Whilst promoting the film Oceans 8, the actresses as part of their publicity are trying to shut down these rumours because they are apparently not true, and even if they were I don’t see how that makes a difference to whether they’ve produced a good film or not?
This is similar in business too, women are seen as “catty” and “bitchy”, and if they get passionate they are told they are too emotional. At the end of the day if you’re delivering your work and achieving what you want to personally achieve, you shouldn’t have to defend your actions because of your gender.
This is where having some one from a mentor to a colleague, who can relate to similar reactions from others or how you feel is important. Not just as a woman in tech or business, but in all walks of life it’s good to have somebody who understands you.
Sadly, there are many reports of suicide in the news at the moment of famous people who for unknown reasons feel that is their only way. There’s many more people every day who take their lives who aren’t reported about.
I personally want to aim to be approachable and personable for others around me, personally or professionally, so if anyone needs someone to understand them, I can try to be that person.
I encourage you all to do the same, because everyone needs that one person who understands.
by Sarah Lewis
I was at a couple of tradeshows earlier this week and attended Women in Technology events and almost all the conversations I had were around imposter syndrome. It really does affect more people than we realise, me included.
The term was coined in 1978 by clinical psychologist Pauline R Clance and Suzanne A Imes and is a concept which describes people who have an persistent fear of being exposed as a fraud. People who exhibit the syndrome dismiss proof of success by claiming it was luck, timing or even making people think they are more intelligent or competent than they are.
I was introduced to this concept of the syndrome was about 7 years ago while having a session with a career coach. I was trying to explain my lack of desire to progress my career further. After chatting, we realised that this apparent lack of ambition was due to my fear of being discovered as a fraud. The career coach promptly told me that almost every executive he had worked with felt like that from time to time, especially very successful women.
Just that one explanation had a massive effect on me, I wasn’t alone! So I started to look at myself, my career and my personal life and decided to make a change starting with “It’s time to fake it til I make it”.
I still class myself as being on the road to recovery but I wanted to share some of the tips that I wish someone had shared with me way back when.
1. Take time to learn and grow
It is not easy to take time out when we have such busy work and home lives but I found that taking the time to learn something new, work on a skill, understand the business better gave me more confidence and helped me to accept some of my weaker areas. Strengths Finder is a great book to help this process.
2. Do not compare yourself to others.
I am fortunate to work with some amazingly strong, confident women and would always compare myself to those ladies. I wasn’t as eloquent, I wasn’t as technical, I wasn’t as good at presenting etc etc. So, instead of comparing yourself to others, look at your own strengths and focus on those. You are good at what you do because you are you, and you don’t have to be anyone else.
3. Find a mentor
If you are lucky enough to find a mentor who you respect and admire and who believes in you, you are on to a winner. You just have to remember, not to try and “be” them and to accept those compliments you are bound to receive. Please don’t fall into the trap of excusing successes as “lucky breaks” or “team work” – another classic Imposter Syndrome symptom.
4. Learn as you go
There is nothing wrong with taking on a project and feeling out of your depth. You are smart, you are talented – there is no reason why you cannot research, learn and practice as you go. You’d be amazed how many women just “fell into” tech roles and do not have a tech based education – please don’t let the lack of a technical degree damage your confidence.
5. Speak Out
It’s ok to talk to people about how you are feeling. Try talking about your imposter feelings, it can help. I discovered so many women in my circle feel the same way as I do and it really helped me feel less alone. Try it out!
I’m not psychologist nor an expert on this subject but I hope that some of my tried and tested techniques give you some food for thought.
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Sarah Lewis is Director Field Marketing at Ivanti and the spearhead for Ivanti’s Women in Technology movement. Sarah started off her tech career in an internal IT support role, moving on into IT Asset Management and was finally lured away into a marketing role where she happily combines technical knowledge with a sprinkle of creativity and indulges in her passion for supporting the women in technology community.
Really appreciating Marie Claire UK for incorporating “power play” and how to be paid what you’re worth into a hit magazine that many women read. These are the kind of articles that do need to become a resident feature in mainstream magazines, to help build up strong women who know when (and how) to stand up to the gender pay gap and earn the money they deserve 💪
It is predicted that it will take 280 years for the gender gap to disappear in Computer Science… the industry may be dominated by robots by then and then it will be a different matter 🤖
Take a look at the article:
I could not agree more with this article that is based upon research commissioned by Microsoft.
It not only highlights the growing gender gap within the STEM industry, but also expresses how careers are not highlighted to young women as they should.
Take a look:
Many people I speak with both academically and personally always ask the question to me “Why is there hardly any girls wanting to go into IT?”
Of course I have my own thoughts on it… personally I believe the way in which IT is viewed is very IT Crowd and not reflective of the actual sector and this needs to change. People’s perception can dissuade, as much as persuade. IT isn’t just a sector for coders, but is also for Project Managers, UX Designers and Business Analysts (among many other roles) which are not technical. Maybe this isn’t the reason, but what do you think it is?
More importantly, what can we do about it?